Hi everyone I just can’t resist not putting my point of view across about the bad parenting dilemma we all face with our young teenagers in our society today we’ve all witness the despicable behaviour of our youth in London and around the country I believe we all condemn the disgusting attitude that was unleashed by them of what they did to their local businesses, businesses rob and torch" even the police for the first time stretch to the limit and was powerless to deal with the situation at first because they themselves have no idea on what was going on with similar unprovoked situation taking place in all uk major cities,

My opinion for solving the problem is very easy only if we all know where to look at the course of this troubled teens, the solution to this dilemma have been neglected for over 40 to 50 years in the society I know some of you will disagree for those that will agree with whom the real solution lies to rescue what is left from the youth” that’s not already being lock up by the police

( Single Mothers )

We live in society that condone and reward single parenting when the important person in a child life is being neglected all the time but credit to the one whom has no rules or what so ever how to disciplined her child when is most needed in a child’s life the (mothers)

Now let us face the truth about why most of our youth misbehave the way they do I know it is controversial that is why most of us avoid this issue for discussions we are in a society that gives mothers unconditional powers over the child father no wonder we are facing the trouble we all face with the youth today, where does the father come into this scenario none, (wake up single mother)

now tell me how can a women teach a boy how to be a man this is the fathers job for over 40 to 50yr the children fathers have always be neglected in helping to bring up their child by their baby mothers”  just because of their own selfish reason that lead to the relationships break up, the question everyone fails to ask all the mothers that deprive the child father from taking part in the upbringing of the child life (is) Is the father abusive to the child, does the child or children love their father does he love them, all these questions need answers before we can all make the best judgement for whom we have the soul right of bringing up the child,

Most of these single mothers that think they don’t need the child father for support thinking they can do it on their own are not only living in denial about the truth they are also destroying the child future by not trying hard to involve the child father in his or her life for the upbringing, please don’t get me wrong I know there are some terrible and stupid fathers out there that have no idea how to support their baby mother by helping to bring up their child which if you ask me he does not need any advice to stand up to his responsibility,

I am talking about the father who want to take care of his responsibility only to be stopped by their ungrateful baby mothers that have no idea what she doing herself less the child future.

Am talking about a father that has to take their ex partner to court to have access to their child or children,

Am talking about a father that has stopped seeing his kids because every time he goes and pick his child up only to regret why he bothered because of the baby mother drama.

Am talking about the father that stop going to see his child because the baby mother have turned him into a cash machine because anytime he shows up only to be overwhelm with never ending list of what the baby mother said the child needs only to spend the money on her self

Am talking about the father, that have tried every avenue to see his child or children only to be stop by the women whom love to be a single mother because of their stupid greed which is their downfall.

Now tell me do this parent or as they preferred to be called a single mother has any idea the damage they are phsycological implementing into their child future, because if this so called single mothers do" there we be no way they would not encourage the relationship between the child and his or her father “A child relationship with a father is priceless any person that have good relationship with their father know what am talking about,

there is a saying when a child is misbehaving at home with their mother “all the mother have to say to the child to get him or her to pay attention to what she is saying is" wait till your father get home from work today now that is the magic word the child will change his or her attitude instantly not the other way around,

because the mother have always be know for being the soft parent in the upbringing of any child the father has always be the disciplinary the rules enforcer of any child that misbehave at home or away from home, to call for a father help when a child is misbehaving is not new to us this has always being there right from the beginning of mankind only if the selfish and manipulative single mothers that has no idea what they doing in the first place depriving the good and excellent fathers that want to stand up to their responsibilities of helping her to bring up their child together even when they are seperated only to be stop by the stupid baby mothers grief again and again, from the uneducated single mother that  also came from a single parent household not learning from the mistake her mother made not letting her have a relationship with her father that would have made her to think straight as a normal good woman that knows what a father presence or roll in a child life means for the child future.

Little do the single mothers know that a fathers wisdom last a life time in any child not the other way around any child that have a good up bringing from both parent are much more wiser knowing their right from wrong because they have the both parent wisdom and knowledge to guide them for the rest of their lives, the question I would like to ask this single mothers is do you think of the future of the child at all when you are taking this aggressive decission to stop the child from seeing his or her father, because if you do think about the future of the child of the other parent also I don’t see any reason why you should deprived the child for not have that everlasting support and  guideline from their father,

what am asking you to think about is what happen when your little Jim or Erica turn 15 are you sure you will be able to deal with their life changing demand on your own I don’t think so with what has just happen in recent days in London has just prove my point because majority of the youth that course the mayhem in London riot are from single parent home living with their single mother with no father figure in their lives which is cause by their mother in the first place,

It is said that the few single mother that has made it on their own for bringing up a well behave child or children on her own without the other parent present 99% if not 100 have a fatherly figure in their upbringing,

My advice is to the bitter women is let bygones be bygones of what lead to your break up with the child father don’t let your child suffer for the mistake that you and his or her father made that lead to your break up don’t let child become another statistic of a broken home, encourage the relationship with their father,  Buy my making the right decision in life eBook to educate yourself and to stop making the (Now Decision) that will eventually destroy your child life before it even began because any youth with criminal record future is doom, for their path is choosing for them already because they have to work on the lower end of any society no matter how much turn around adult they became or the excellent Degree they achieve in the future because the damage has be done in their early teens.

If you are not familiar with the saying it take two to make a child but it will take the whole village just to raised one because you cannot do it alone,  Buy my rules of life eBook to lean the meaning of life and it wonderful gift most of us take for granted, Because I strongly with no equivocal encourage father and child relationship I will go one step further any mother or father that buy my ebook I will go out of my way to contact the child father or the mother for you for free the call charges on me because I know what a fathers wisdom is to a child, if you this today you will automatically become that super parents that put his or her child future first before anything else to give that child whom you love so much a bright future with their fathers wisdom including help and support you will need. Now here is my personal email address leeblog@nightclublovers.com  I we need the father or the mother name and phone number with other relevant information that you think I will need to contact him,

Have a nice day.

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