Hi every one let talk about how we know when we find the right partner, finding the right partner whom will make you happy and be there for you whatever the outcome of life challenges is not really a rocket science only if we pay more attention to what we really need instead of what we want in a relationship, with finding the right partner we often neglect what we really need in a long term with what we want in a short term, short term is the illusion that break up 65% of our relationship up, when we try to turn it into the real thing.

Now what are the short terms of what we want instead of what we need? what we want in a short term is wow he is fit look at those muscles his very charming or look at those legs she is the prettiest girl or the most beautiful woman i have ever laid my eyes on, sound familiar these are what most men and woman do often don’t get is wrong at this moment both parties are not interested in long term relationship is their auto pilot in their mind that is doing the talking right now we often let our guard down when we let auto pilot communicate with our brain.

Your autopilot triggers your brain to starts sexual stimulation to give us the excitement vision to look at this person whom we fancy on how they we look when naked in our bed, The auto pilot is interested in is one thing and one thing only we all know what that is” not worrying about tomorrow is all about now, at this point in time do we even remember what we really need or the qualities that we are actually looking for or expecting from our partners,

something like if this were to turn into the real thing, will he or she be the right partner whom will be there for me to support me mentally and physically or will he or she be a good father or mother to our kids if we decide to have one. this are the real question we all need to ask our self when looking for the right partner, fact do you know 65% of our break up relationships is based on short term autopilot relationships.

What do we expect from a partner that our autopilot chose for us I believe we’ve all had the saying you can take a horse to the river but you can’t make he or she drink if they don’t feel like drinking, I believe most of know what soul mate means, for those that don’t is the phrase used to describe good relationship that both partners enjoyed and celebrate. This partners have never let autopilot make the decision for them confusing what they want with what they need in their long term partners they’ve always ask the right question think of long term not short term, they’ve always look for quality partner not quantity partners.

My advice is make positive decision when choosing a future partner” don’t let your autopilot make your decision for you if you are in one make the right decision right now don’t leave it too late thinking you can change your autopilot partner into the real thing, I promise you will get your soul mate,  DOWNLOAD MY PATH TO HAPPINESS eBOOK) for guard lines,

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