Hi every one let’s talk about the common mistake most Couple make when children are involved in their relationships,  will all know relationship is a two way street which means it takes two to tangle, My Question is why some of our relationships don’t survive when we  start having kids or children I know some would say this cover a lot of different issues that’s right,

Here are some Common factors Like one of the partner is not helping enough with the upbringing, He or she is not supporting the kids or children enough, one of the partner is not face-ing up to his or her responsibilities they think they are still single, Yes this can go on  forever with different issues why some of our relationships don’t work when there are children involved.

But let me draw your attention to my favourite one the reason why this is my favourite is because it check all the whole box of good relationship with children for start to finish i.e. supporting the child or children both partner playing their full roll of bring up their child or children yet is still not enough to save a perfect relationship with children it must be something that one of the parties overlook, like what brought us together in the first place or they just stop taking care of what is important to them,

My opinion is lets go back to the beginning of our relationships before the children for example remember it take two to tangle, At the beginning of any relationships we all met our partner somewhere, example restaurant, nightclub, cinema, strip club, gay bar, holiday, etc and you both love the same at door things, Again this list can go on forever anyway I think you get the point if not email me,

My Question is do having a child or children kill our relationships off course not even that is where the real relationship start is like saying because my old car broken down and is beyond repair am not going to drive again,

My Advice is don’t let having children spoil your relationship with your partner because before the child or children it was just the two of you which means you are both the priority no1 of your family think of what would make you both be very happy together, always put your partner first before the children because you both need each other to raise the child or children because two head is better than one, continue to do what make you both happy just in case if you meet your partner in a strip club, nightclub, cinema, restaurants, holiday, etc

Continue to do this things together don’t  stop because you have a child, Because if you stop having fun with your partner and ruin your relationships because you feel obligated to stay at home all the time with the child or children, I promise you when your child or children are all grownup they would not ruin  their relationship with their partner for you why should they, Because  you think you stayed at home with them for their upbringing they should do the same hell no, They would say that was your choice because there were a lot of options for you like asking any member of your family to baby sit, As you can see the whole choice was all yours don’t ruin your relationship with the right partner for you because you think condemning your social life style after having a child would keep him or her, I hope this article would make you think again. Have a nice day.

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